Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Cooling Off a Hot Dog

It's blasted hot here and Don is going to great lengths to keep our dog cool.
























He hosed her down, moved things around on the patio, found a fan and an old water mister in our garage and rigged it up to blow on her. Now, that is love!

Thursday, March 8, 2012

The Cost of Raising a Child

Chase is dating a girl with an adorable 18 month old baby and it has been a real eye opener for him. While shopping at Wal-Mart last night, he text me. Here is what was said...

Chase- : D Having a kid is expensive.  (as if I didn't already know)

Me- Try having four.

Chase- No thanks!

Our short conversation brought to memory a Court of Honor that I attended, where the Boy Scout's father read the following thought provoking piece:

The Cost of Raising a Child

 
The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140.00 for a middle income family. Talk about price shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition. But $160,140.00 isn't so bad if you break it down..


It translates into:

$8,896.66 a year,


$741.38 a month, 

$171.08 a week.


That's a mere $24.24 a day, just over a dollar an hour.


Still, you might think the best financial advice is; "Don't have children if you want to be 'rich'."

Actually, it is just the opposite.


What do you get for your $160,140.00?


* Naming rights: first, middle, and last.


* Glimpses of God every day.


* Giggles under the covers every night.


* More love than your heart can hold.


* Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs.


* Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.


* A hand to hold usually covered with jelly or chocolate.


* A partner for blowing bubbles and flying kites.


* Someone to laugh yourself silly with, no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.


For $160,140.00, you never have to grow up. You get to:


* finger-paint,


* carve pumpkins,


* play hide-and-seek,


* catch lightning bugs,


* never stop believing in Santa Claus.


You have an excuse to:


* keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh,


* watch Saturday morning cartoons,


* go to Disney movies, and


* wish on stars.


You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day.


For a mere $24.24 a day, there is no greater bang for your buck. You get to be a hero just for:


* retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof


* taking the training wheels off a bike


* removing a splinter


* filling a wading pool


* coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs and


* coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.


You get a front row seat in history to witness the:


* First step


* First word


* First joke


* First date


* First time behind the wheel


You get to be immortal.


You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren and great grandchildren. You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match.


In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost. That is quite a deal for the price!

Love and enjoy your children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren.


It's the best investment you'll ever make.



If anyone knows who the author is, please let me know. I would like to give credit where it is due.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Love and Sex

I knew I was in for an interesting Valentine's Day when I walked into the living room this morning and the first thing out of Cody's mouth was, "Today on Oprah they will be talking about love and sex." He made sure to enunciate the "sex" part, then he kept repeating it until I finally said, "Okay, Cody. I heard you." He chuckled, somewhat mischievously, then dropped it.

Cody has no idea what sex is, but something tells me he knew saying it would make me a little uncomfortable.
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